Re: Need help wiring a ceiling fan (with remote)
First the middle switch is not being used, there is only a ground wire on it.
Second The wall outlet switch most likely the red is hot to the switch and the black is the switched hot to the outlet.
Third the dimmer switch (an educated guess) has three wires black is hot, blue to fan light, and black/white to fan. The black/white is most likely connect to the black wire going to the fan, the blue most likely connected to the red wire going to the fan the white wire in the switch box is connected to the white to the fan.
You connect the black wire to the black wire on the remote inlet side, connect the white on the inlet side to the other white wires in the switch box, connect the remote out black to the black going to the fan, connect the remote out blue to the red wire going to the fan and just pretend the red is blue. connect the remote out white to the white wire going to the fan.
This is just a guess based on standard wiring practices and may not necessarily match what you have.
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