glad this is back

i recently refinished a dresser with 3 or 4 coats of gloss spar varnish, i think it may be too glossy. someone told me about a product called liquid sandpaper. do you think i could use that to just knock off a little of the gloss or should i hit it very lightly with some 0000 steel wool? i don't want to dull it too much, and i really don't want to sand & refinish with a semi gloss. it actually seems like it might be toning down a little by itself. is that possible?